Thoughts
Developing flexibility in our thinking is key. Overcoming our
biases and interpreting situations differently is a skill of
perspective-taking (trying to see a situation from another
point of view) that can be practiced.
The more mentally flexible we become the more easily we will
be able to "weather the storms" of life, called cognitive
flexibility.
To practice your perspective-taking skills you can ask yourself
the following questions when you encounter a situation that
bothers you:
"What is another way of looking at this situation?"
"What would a friend say to me about this?"
"Will I even remember this problem in ten years' time?"
"How would I respond to this situation if I had no fear?"
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